I wrote a million words about me and mister, but the lesson was get to know people before getting involved with them. If you fail to do that and they do something you cannot accept, have the courage to leave even if you love them. If you cannot do that, accept yourself and what happens to you. There was this great fortune I got when I was with Mister it said, "You can see through people or see people through.". Trust is hard to build, once it is broken it can be hard to repair as they say. Now I am learning to have the patience to build trust with people before getting too involved. Both for them and for me.